You know what? You and I have a lot in common, and it’s that shared experience that has me here today, with an infinite desire to tell you many things, but not knowing where to start.
I believe that the dream we both have, and the one I personally have already fulfilled and today calls me “dad”, is what unites us, because that’s how it was, it all started with a dream, a longing and a desire, and today it is possible thanks to the fortune of having a team of specialists like the one at InSer who become the angels that guide and direct a dream.
Although many times I wanted to step aside and give up, it was because of their ethics, their professionalism and their commitment, that I left my doubts, my frustrations and my longings in their hands, with the conviction of having in my arms, at some point, that being that would change my life forever.
It is not easy as a man to accept that after some attempts, it was not possible to achieve what the soul and heart longed for so much, because medically that “little push” was needed, which was only consolidated when I shed my male ego, thousands of taboos that society imposes on you, and so much “what will they say” that does not let us be ourselves and prevents us from being completely happy.
Today I tell you that it is possible, that dreams come true, materialize and become little people when we let ourselves be guided, when we accept and understand that we are not less men, nor better or worse parents, if we resort to other unconventional ways to achieve our desire to be called “dad”.
Let yourself be carried away by the heart and not by reasons or questions of why “you can’t”, on the contrary, understand and assume that even if it is another man who contributes the seed, it is you who will cultivate, watch grow and reap everything you sowed.
You are worth what you are, what you feel and what you give, not because you can or cannot fertilize, virility goes beyond that and only a true man assumes and gives his whole being in search of a dream.
Now, I go back a few years and confirm that it is one of the most difficult decisions to make, but it is worth taking the risk for the love of your life.
This is a decision of self-love, of brave people. Be more compassionate with yourself, we came to learn to love ourselves and to give love and this test that life puts you through today, only shows you that you were chosen because you have the courage and the courage to accept that you cannot control everything, that control is not in your hands, but that, if you understand the purpose of the situation, the reward will come.
Don’t stop dreaming because of fear, because this smile that I have today, no one can take it away from me and that is what I long for, that from my experience, your smile will not be erased either, as a result of self-love and the most accurate decision that a man can make in his life.
Go ahead, believe in yourself and dream big, because the desires of the soul do materialize.
