We forge our life project step by step, which becomes changing through experiences and experiences.
In the journey through the different stages of human development, during sharing as a couple, the desire to be parents begins, to bring a new being into the world and is projected as one of the greatest desires for the formation of the family.
In this process of dreaming of the conception of a child and materializing their existence as a couple, there are countless agreements, but at the same time of disagreements, concerns, attachments, evaluations and decisions that lead to wear out the bond, while the arrival of this new member occurs. The conception of a child begins to become a priority, but it is important as well as feeding the desire to conceive, to continue cultivating the love of a couple, care, respect, and union with the being we have chosen to live our day to day, since the eagerness to have a child sometimes becomes a struggle as a couple, and blame, estrangement, fears, finger-pointing and little appreciation for the other come to light.
In the same way, when for some reason conception does not occur, it is normal for them to go through states of sadness, anguish, fear, anger and a number of sensations, because it is human to feel, it is human to perceive this type of experience. It is there, then, where it becomes vital to let ourselves be accompanied therapeutically, to look for new ways to approach the experience and to bond in new ways, to make this a sweet wait and not an emotionally stormy path, putting new engines into our personal and couple life, looking for new alternatives, projecting ourselves from our mission and reaffirming the value of existence.
In terms of fertility, it is important to seek clear and professional advice on the medical side and at the same time be attentive to the emotional factor, seeking therapeutic accompaniment to realize the meaning of your life and the ways to recreate and reinvent your relationship project.
Only after a thousand and one attempts from medical advances and from therapeutic and emotional accompaniment, can it be said that conception was not achieved, but not before. Each and every one of the failed attempts are only instances of a path that was important to travel to grow and thus advance on a personal level. The path becomes a sweet wait and an important preparation for the life of parents, as long as these spaces are used for personal growth, self-esteem and empowerment of body and mind in favor of conception.
It is advisable to accompany these emotional processes with psychological therapy in order to strengthen oneself in the mission and in the life project on a personal level and as a couple. To do this, we must act from self-love and unconditional love with ourselves and with the other, in order to find ourselves and restructure their path.
We are emotional beings not only rational, so it is important to give ourselves permission to feel, to cry, to laugh, to vibrate, to love, to dream and in the same way to deserve. Therapeutically this balance is reached where emotions are made conscious, but they are put as a basis for the benefit of the human being and their desires, managing to make the search for a baby a memorable moment in our lives and not a traumatic experience.
When you are planning to have a baby, it is vital to have comprehensive accompaniment, to have a human team that advises you, listens to you, contains you and is there helping you to make this experience a special and above all loving moment for yourself and with the other.
