After a year where uncertainty was one of the most common feelings among society, a new period arrives in which the heart is transformed to overcome fear and strengthen the great desire to have a child.
We consider 2021 the year of RESILIENCE because it comes loaded with love and self-improvement. Beyond the circumstances, attitude makes a difference between those who, despite the obstacles, do not stop dreaming, believing and fighting.
Today we recognize the value of knowing how to wait and to prepare the heart to receive at the right moment the blessing of being parents. Things do not always happen when we want to, much less when we impose on life what should happen, so it is important to learn to accept in order to transform the feelings that generate pain into opportunities for improvement and RESILIENCE.
Here are 5 tips to strengthen this feeling and continue quickly in the face of any adversity:
- Remember with love and gratitude each challenge faced: keep in mind each situation that led you to where you are today. Remembering how strong you are and the persistence with which you overcame each obstacle will help you reaffirm that you are capable of anything and that each experience leaves great learnings.
- Don’t blame yourself for what happens: it is common for us to take each situation that comes our way in life personally. We tend to question our actions and reproach every decision, but it is time to free ourselves from remorse and accept that there were surely several factors that contributed to the situation; Everything happens for a reason and every experience helps you to be better.
- Rewrite your story: it is normal for us to think about the future and plan what we want in life, however, it should not be a straitjacket to continue with those plans. It is important to allow ourselves to change the course of history to continue strengthening with each learning.
- Be positive, don’t let your energies dim: being optimistic does not mean ignoring the reality or difficult moment you are going through. A positive person allows themselves to see opportunity in the midst of difficulty, and thinks of the future as a great option to overcome each situation and transform pain into an impulse to overcome.
- Face your fears, get out of your comfort zone: allow life to surprise you and help you strengthen your feelings and thoughts. Resilience is not only formed after negative experiences, it is also forged with challenge, overcoming and perseverance.
A resilient person understands that they are the architect of their own joy and their own destiny YOUR HEART IS RESILIENT! YOU ARE RESILIENT!
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